πŸ’‘ Silence is not a sign for harmony

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Most leadership dashboards measure the things that make noise. Complaints, escalations, attrition, open conflict.

So when a team goes quiet, it reads as good news. For example, we take the absence of pushback on a new idea as evidence of alignment.

Here's an idea. If you want to find out whether your team is psychologically safe responding to you, make a proposal that is clearly impossible. Are they speaking up?

Their reaction can tell you a lot. It's not about setting your team up, but to trigger a necessary conversation. Be prepared to react constructively either way (they are silent vs speaking up).

If they were silence and you then explore with humility what genuinely lead to a lack of reaction, something genuinely new can come out of it. It's how team culture forms!

Maik

Maik Frank

Maik is a PCC Executive Coach and the founder of IntelliCoach.com. He has coached and trained over 400 People Leaders to improve their communication skills and offers guaranteed measurable growth to his clients. He also hosts the Coaching Leader Podcast.

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